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Kresha Richman Warnock's avatar

Thank you. I am pleased to see an essay like this come out. Your examples are clear and real-world. As a fairly new writer myself, writing about topics which do not always fit into the current mainstream literary narrative, I think about this subject all the time.

And my advice to all new moms! Sleep whenever you can. And enjoy it.

Stewart Baker's avatar

First and most importantly, congratulations on your new child! Hooray!

For this essay in particular, while I appreciate you had a shitty experience, I would like to invite you to read into the topic of "bothsideism," or if you want the philosophical term for this logical fallacy: false equivalency.

This essay is a classic piece of bothesideism, and although I am genuinely sorry you felt personally attacked by the response to an essay you wrote in a college course, I would like to gently point out that your reaction to that is not remotely in line with the five questions you reference towards the end of this essay.

Did you, yourself, ask these questions about your reaction to that situation? Have you examined why you feel attacked by people who oppose the uncritical promotion of right-wing American Christian worldviews? (Because to be clear, the problem is almost never "this promote Christianity" but "the way this promotes Christianity is actively harmful to some people.")

Here are a few articles you could read about bothesideism when you are ready and willing to learn more about that and more closely examine your own blind spots—which is super hard and uncomfortable to do (I know this as someone who spent much of my childhood in the south!) but is an important part of being human, and of growing as a writer and a person.

https://democracytoolkit.press/resources/avoid-both-sidesism-journalism-tips/

https://theconversation.com/suicide-for-democracy-what-is-bothsidesism-and-how-is-it-different-from-journalistic-objectivity-230894

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